Why solitude is a gift, not a punishment
This past weekend, my house was quiet for once, as everyone headed in different directions—shopping, the beach, errands. And I realized something surprising: I was actually excited to be alone.
For some, that idea is terrifying. They fill the silence with noise and the empty spaces with distractions. There’s a compulsion to do something, call someone, or scroll through social media because being alone, even for an hour, feels unbearable.
But there is true power in being comfortable with yourself.
For me, spending a day alone with just my dogs feels like freedom. When my partner travels, I can’t help but feel excited about the solo time ahead. It’s not about being antisocial; it’s about self-confidence. It’s about knowing you can sit with yourself and feel complete.
Solitude is not about shutting the world out; it’s about strengthening the relationship you have with yourself. In stillness, we find clarity. In quiet, we recharge. Being alone does not mean being lonely.
The question is not whether you are an introvert or an extrovert; it is about your ability to be alone with your thoughts without distraction. Can you be comfortable in solitude, or do you require constant stimulation to feel at ease?
“What a lovely surprise to discover how unlonely loneliness can be.” — Ellen Burstyn
This week, I challenge you to set aside 30 minutes for true solitude. Put away your phone. Turn off the TV. Just spend time with your thoughts. Notice what comes up: comfort or fear? The more you practice, the more you’ll discover that being alone isn’t a punishment but rather a gift.
Until next time, friends,
Chris
At Outside Insights, we believe solitude isn’t about being alone—it’s about coming home to yourself. Share this with someone ready to embrace the quiet.
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